I feel for you. I built a barn, and strangest thing happened, all my "friends: disappeared, and I (with a very bad back) ended doing mostly by myself. It seemed to rains massively 4 days out of the week for spring summer and fall. It took me two years to build that 16 x 24 foot 26 feet high barn. It came out great. Funny, all the friends showed up when I was done asking me to fix this and that, but two new things happened. I had a new price schedule for my services, and my prices hard increased sharply