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I only once saw a video with fly-by-wire, the old "pioneer" model plane flight, using cable remotes
The servo will work with one cell according to the description.
VOLTAGE
If you want to make sure, this speed controler is 2g AND has a voltage booster:
http://hobbyking.com/hobbyking/store/uh_viewItem.asp?idProduct=10334
So there will not be any low battery reciever glitches... Though you could ask someone on the forum. I do have the v1 hobbyking radio, which is probably identical with the hobbypartz-model, but as I do not have any 1s setup I can not really test how it will perform under load in flight.
seperate boosters are available, but heavier (at least without stripping them)
http://www.hobbyking.com/hobbycity/store/uh_viewItem.asp?idProduct=11784
if you want to go ultra-light, and with such a model even a crash is not dangerous, you could try to fly without a booster or just ask in the Hobbyking forum prior to ordering.
Here is the lighter ESC without booster
http://hobbyking.com/hobbyking/store/uh_viewItem.asp?idProduct=9667
As I (think I) said earlier, I am no micro-pro, but I do know my way arround the components, as I want to build some micro stuff too once I get arround to it. But if you use the boost-esc, you should be all set.
Charger
You could get a cheap $20 charger off ebay that should do the job and is suitable for other projects as well (100mA and up for charging, max. 6 cells, lipo and others).
http://cgi.ebay.de/RC-B6-Charger-Di...Radio_Controlled_Vehicles&hash=item230b0da468
+AC 12v 1A minimum to avoid problems ($3-5 Wii AC/DC from ebay will do, or old printer/laptop ac/dc, or modified old computer atx powerbox; Chargers for the b3/b6 charger clones with the correct plug are available at $8-10) though these small packs might work with less amp, and input is specified for 11-18v
Alternativly those small batteries are used in lots of planes and you could get a cheap wall charger with no display and fancy electronics. I saw they total up to almost $10, so getting a charger thats at least a bit better is the way to go.
cheaper batteries if you need to order spares speratly and it would cost more to pay the hobbyking shipping; No name, but okey for the 2g motor I'dd say!
http://shop.ebay.de/i.html?_nkw=(ef...-flite)&_osacat=0&_trksid=p3286.c0.m270.l1313
as the ones at HK are 11g they are ideal to order along though.
As for cables: Ebay is sometimes cheaper, espeically if you calculate in the shipping (as i usualy do)
http://shop.ebay.de/i.html?LH_PrefLoc=2&LH_BIN=1&rt=nc&_sop=15&_sc=1&_nkw=JST-XH
As for charging multiple, you could get
http://hobbyking.com/hobbyking/store/uh_viewItem.asp?idProduct=10621 , but then they charge unbalanced. Not recomended, though these tiny batteries are cheap and you should not charge unatended anyway (and on a fireproof, non conducting surface....)
There are some adapter boards that will hook them up in series and provide a balance plug, but I could not find a (cheap) board with the JST-XH, and if neccesary you could wire it using the cheap cables off ebay.