Hi all. sorry havent been on for quite awhile except for some pop in visits. Last year my wife Deb kind of took a turn for the worst. it wasnt the cancer. the last scan done in March of this year showed that the tumor had shrunk 70 %, her mental state ( through out all of 2020 ) had gotten so bad that she was calling rescue 3 to 4 times a day for no reason. she just stopped taking care of herself and i was just about doing full time healthcare for her. but in January of this year due to the help of her doctors office, CSAC ( mental health) and the rescue department here in our town they finely ( more likely got the shits of her calling them , which i can not blame them ) got her admitted to hospital. she was in there from January till May. They then got her admitted into a nursing home where she will be staying from now on. last time she was at the hospital in late December she came down with C-DIFF. signed herself out and told me that they told her to go home...she lied.. gave her meds to take and only took 3 doses..it was a 10 day, 3 times a day dosing. she got so weak and needed help to walk from the bedroom to bathroom. that got cured when she was taken in January. i was spending all my time taking care of her that i didnt know on how bad i was wearing myself out and letting work here slide at the complex we live in. that god the owner under stood what i was going through and helped out . finely all the agencies got their shit in line and stepped in to help. she now has a court appointed medical guardian and that burden is taken off mine and her son's shoulders. we have been told that she will not be coming home at all do to her health. i know that she is in the best place for her to be. and a great rock has been lifted of of all of us here. it took about 3 months for me to get somewhat back into swing of things. lost all interest in doing any of my hobbies.. but have started a new one with 3d printing and slowly getting back into the paper cutting. ( still nick fingers).. so thats whats been happening on my end. I know that 2020 has been hell on everyone out there and things are getting better for us all.. Take care and youll be seeing more of me ( i hope..hahaha) here
Mark Lyter
Mark Lyter