It's a dilema alright! Let's simplify it?
I love the 3 (pretty much- Major) hobby shops in my neck of the woods. I go and ewwwwww and ahhhhhh while pressing my nose against the glass cases holding all the locos and high ticket items.*
There's a strip mall hobbyshop I know of that denies that they are on of the largest advertises in MR and RMC for discounted merchandise (but they are). Is your LHS selling to you at their "overhead" cost while selling it discount to mail orders. Only your LHS knows for sure (prolly not unless you have a really sweet looking LHS, lots of inventory and yet they don't ever seem to be crowded- and I mean lots, ailses and aisles and big huge display cases, etc). Think about it. Call a commercial realtor and find out what the square foot per month rent is in a block your LHS is.
This basically comes down to micro and macro economics. Supply and demand. Sounds familiar, Right? And when you roll all the options thru your mind (in my case- muh pea brain), much like the question before the G-7, Where do we go from here?
We pitty the poor LHS who's making cash (pronounced kaysh) hands over fists selling at a mark up to attract "the man on the street". You're not the man on the street but that's how most LHSs are run. Too bad, they're missing the boat or hoping you don't know their buisness, which is is realy your business.
The market has changed- business(es) must change!
It was the other way around not too long ago. Perhaps you've forgotten. Couldn't find a decent anything at any price, anywhere. Now, it's all over at affordable prices considering what was where. (Try rolling that thru my pea brain once and you'll have a collapse!)
Perhaps instead of glorified retail type stores, a local "Hobby Warehouse" may spring up in your town. If it's not in your town, you'll drool over the day you can take your family across country to visit "Hobby Warehouse" in (name furthest town you can think of here on either coast or central states) like the Grizzwalds in "Family Vacation"!!! SUPER! Perhaps many things will happen. But you, YOU, will decide whether your LHS survives. They'll have something to do with with it too- but they'll blame you, YOU for their loss of market share.
And so, we will know the outcome of all this in time.
It does really boil down to economics and how to re-tool for a changing market and in this case supply due to technology.
I am impressed by the notion that this thread has "boinked" forth.
It's a dilema alright. And I like it!
Mark
*I can't help it! I like the impression muh nose leaves on the glass.